Why Love Marriages are not lasting more in India?

Hello friends,

Life has changed in such a drastic way, from no love marriages allowed in family to only love marriage in India is a new change. Today, we are not going to talk on the negative side of love marriages, which are not lasting more, but we will talk about the possible solutions to make them grow.

Have you ever realized that how two people come close and all of sudden things start to fall apart, from starting of love to ending of love. One thing is very common and what is that I will tell you in end of this blog.

I have been to various nations and have seen that love comes with an expiry date and sorry to say but it can’t be helped, but yes what can happen is delaying the expiry date or renewing the love, but the very big question is “HOW THE HELL MAN?” If you have seen the love is an emotion which can only be felt in the greatest way when you are either far away from that person or have already broken up. Just for instance, “how many times you remember you ex for now reason?”, “Why are you crazy about your crush?”, ““Why are you so worried about your long-distance partner”, ““Why is your one-sided love bothering you so much?”. The only reason is you don’t have them in your life at the moment and they are those missing part of the puzzle which you have been missing in your heart.

But why are we reading this, when this blog is about Love Marriages are not lasting in India anymore? It’s because love is not a language of magical three words, but an emotion of love, token of trust, worship of faith, hands of belief and knowledge of responsibility. Which have to last until the expiry date arrives and it can only be delayed if you have this.

Modern India, is more western cultured and have an issue of trial and error, which is not bad but not even favorable. What I meant here is something, that can help you make your bond stronger and bold.

1)       Sleeping with anyone is not love: We often go to club, do hook-up and party and a lot of stuff which we think is cool Is it cool though? Off course it is but not on the cost of your mental peace. Sex is fun till we get climax but not after that because after that our bodies want to feel the warmth of love and that can’t be felt. Having affairs is not something courage’s as it leads to “TROUBLED RELATIONSHIPS”, you start to demand and ask for things from your partner which you had in your past affairs. It’s all in your passive mind, coming to your active relationship. We forget that this person is different compared to the past one. World is full of beaches but still, goa is different then Miami and both have their own uniqueness, we can’t have both the experiences at same place.

2)       Compromised Relationships: They are like a termite as you both are killing yourself each and everyday for something which is not required, don’t be in a relationship, just because you have been dated for 6 years or have talked in your homes, or just under the influence of any social pressure. “Koi Majboori ya Samjhote ko pyaar nhi kehte hai”, don’t try to have expire relationship as you know expiry things are harmful to health and in this case harmful to mind, heart and soul.

3)       Zero Understanding: He might drive a luxury car but that doesn’t mean he is brilliant in understanding you. It is always been very important, why you date someone who can’t even get you. Marriages, won’t last where you don’t’ have understanding for each other. A week is hard to live with a stranger and here you are planning life together. Trust me, it’s a pit and you will be dumped. Divorce is harder than a break up as it breaks to families not just two hearts. No understanding, you need to build it and if you can’t then find someone with it.

4)       Fantasy: This seems to be not so important but is very crucial. Marriage is not just staying together but slaying together and it’s also about starting a family. A girl with a broken heel always needs a support from her guy to support her, like wise a guy need a woman to pamper him after his hard day. Marriage needs lot of love but plenty of sex, yes you heard right, it’s a job of a man to ask the satisfaction of her girl and it’s a girl’s job to lick him all. Kamasutra have so many positions then why just one? If you both are not looking after each other need than sorry to say but someone else will. Delhi high court, if you go and see, will be shocked to hear that 80% divorces are just because of this. Don’t add more to this high percentage and be in the next 20%. No matter what you have to ride your guy until you satisfy and you have to charge up until she gave up.

Conclusion: So, in the starting as I said that one thing that is very common from start to end is what? Any guess, I believe you already did it. It’s the spark, which is missing and you need to add that to it. Spark is the only thing deciding the expiry date of your relationship the moment its dim the relationship struggle and the time it disappears is the time your relationship expires. At, Lovayush we work as a supplement to your relationship, which can make it look stronger and better. Let’s us add some sparks to your relationship, if you are struggling with it. As, we love to see you both grow and live together.

How to add spark? I can tell you in my next blog. For any questions or queries please write to us. We would love to make your relationship stronger and better.